In this week’s Gospel, we encounter the story of Mary and Martha, two sisters who welcome Jesus into their home. While Martha becomes preoccupied with the duties of hospitality, Mary chooses to sit at Jesus’ feet and listen to His teaching. At first glance, this passage might seem to highlight a conflict between action and contemplation, but a closer look reveals something deeper about discipleship and the role of women in the ministry of the word.
Martha’s concern with preparing and serving may seem noble, yet her distraction causes her to miss the significance of the moment: Jesus, the Word made flesh, is present and teaching. Mary, on the other hand, chooses to leave behind the expected role of a woman in her culture—serving quietly in the background—and takes the position of a disciple. Sitting at Jesus’ feet was a posture reserved for students learning from a rabbi, a role traditionally reserved for men in Jewish society. In choosing this, Mary steps into a new identity: not merely a woman in service, but a full and faithful disciple of Christ.
This moment is significant because Jesus affirms Mary’s choice. He gently rebukes Martha, saying, “Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” This response is a powerful endorsement of Mary’s role as a minister of the word. Jesus not only allows but defends her place as a learner, a disciple, someone worthy of receiving and reflecting on divine teaching.
Mary’s decision reminds us that following Jesus requires more than activity; it requires attentive presence and openness to His word. Her example encourages all believers to prioritise relationship with Christ over mere busyness. Moreover, her actions challenge cultural stereotypes, especially those that confine women to supporting roles. Mary’s example elevates the value of listening, learning, and responding to God’s word with the heart of a true disciple.
In a world often driven by doing, Mary’s choice invites us to slow down, listen deeply, and embrace the transformative call of discipleship. Her story is a reminder that everyone, regardless of role or gender, is called to sit at the feet of Jesus and be changed by His word.
Fr Stephen Berecz
